Truth is, how many people these days are actually happy with everything about themselves. From their face to their body to their personality. We always think something about us could be better; could be improved. we would look better and feel better if we could change our flaws. Sure some people want to have that perfect body, clear skin, unique talents, and other stuff. but, why do you want to be so damn perfect? Do you think more people will like you if you were so perfect? Do you think you will find love if everything about you was perfect? Get better grades? Live a better life? Why can’t’ you just live your life and be happy and proud of who you are. If you’re not, then start accepting who you really are. Be unique, be happy, be YOU.
One thing I can always count on is that the only thing that will ever remain the same is change. Change is the reason I am who I am today. Change is the reason for those who have come in my life and for those who no longer apart of it. Had it not been for this common truth I’d probably still be thinking I knew it all and been through it all. When in all reality, my knowledge is only limited to what I’ve experienced. Change is needed. Without it, we remain idle. We don’t grow. I don’t grow. A friend of mine once told me, “if you’re not growing you’re dying.” and “if you’re not living you’re not trying.” Those two phrases have become somewhat of a daily reminder to not be comfortable. A reminder that one should never be satisfied and always want more for oneself. Weather it be to learn something new everyday or not be lazy. Living starts outside of our comfort zone. Experience. Adventure. Try a food you’ve never eaten. Simple actions turn into big reminders that you are alive, in good health, and of good company. Its natural to fall in love with something or someone and want that feeling forever. But with everyday passing wanting things to remain how they are is an opportunity missed to live…
No one has the right to tell you who you are and control your life, because it’s yours. Your life is meant to be lived by no one else but yourself.
Never base your life decisions on advice from people who don’t have to deal with the results.
you should chase whatever it is that excites you. be confident and take risks.
one day, you’ll miss me like hell. & you’ll wish that you never fucked up. then you’ll come running back to what could’ve been yours. should’ve been yours. but you’ll see that this time around, i’m the one that’s not gonna give a fuck.
i am made of one hundred percent flaws, and i can promise there is not one ounce of perfection in me. but, good intentions hold me together, and i hope that counts for something.
long distance is hard. you have to trust that as you each change on your own, your relationship will also change along with you. it takes hope, good humor, and idealism. it takes a massive dose of courage to protect the relationship at all odds. it is hard, but worth it. you’ll both be stronger as a result.
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My gift to you!<3 Happy Holidays Everyone! Thanks for all the support!
<3Joey Diamond
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